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When you stop being afraid you feel good

“What you are afraid of is never as bad as what you imagine. The fear you let build up in your mind is worse than the situation that actually exists.”  ―  Spencer Johnson ,  Who Moved My Cheese? Tap into your mind and think about all the situation where you hesitated and failed to perform when you were afraid and think what you would've done if you were not afraid? Fear only exists in our mind. It could be fear of losing our job or fear of being judged. Fear is the creation of our mind. The more we fear it weakens our confidence and we cannot perform at our fullest. So what can we do? We can tackle fear by acting upon it. When we feel afraid in a situation instead of backing out and thinking how it will affect you. tackle it, act upon it, it is all in your mind.

The Most Important Things to Say to the People You Love

I love you  - I acknowledge and appreciate you.  There is nothing as powerful as love.  Say it as often as you can and mean it. As Human-Being's we are hungry for love. Hearing I love you from the person we love is the most beautiful thing to hear. Don't just say I Love you. you can also represent your love indirectly tell them that you acknowledge the person they are. Tell them that you appreciate their efforts make them feel the love rather than just saying these words. The feeling of being loved is the best feeling in the world. I'm Sorry  - I feel bad for what I did. I regret my actions and would not repeat them. I have learned from my mistakes. I take responsibility and am remorseful.  Saying I'm sorry is not something that you should feel bad about you should take responsibility for the things you have wronged. By saying sorry you don't become small or weak rather you elevate in the eyes of the other person. Please Forgive Me ...

What makes a relationship work?

This is a pair of lock and key! Can they fit in each other and make them useful in this position? Obviously  No! Now, what if the key changes its position 180 degrees, but the lock is stubborn and doesn’t want to alter its opening position? Will it fit? No!  It still won’t fit. Not useful yet! How about this? If the lock to alters its opening position a bit? Yes!  It works now! They are useful now. A lesson learned, to be compatible and fit for each other, you need to change a bit! In the above case, Lock and Key are two people and usefulness is a relationship. Two people(Lock and Key) can’t get into a relationship(Usefulness) until they understand(analyze) each other and change themselves(positions) a bit. Nobody is perfect. To let other people fit in your life, you need to make a little change in yourself. No! It’s not compromising!  It’s changing yourself to get compatible for the other person. S...

Success on the outside means nothing

The world we live in is a very special place. The Success on the outside means nothing unless you also have success within. There is a huge difference between well-being and being well-off. Self-mastery and the consistent care of one's mind, body and soul are essential to finding one's highest self and living the life of one's dreams.

Happiness and unhappiness are states of mind

Happiness and unhappiness are states of mind and therefore there real causes cannot be found outside the mind, so if we have a peaceful state of mind we would be happy regardless of people and circumstances.  If our mind is unpeaceful and agitated, then even if we have good circumstances we'll find it impossible to be happy.So in other words,  it's not what is happening that is making us happy or unhappy, It is how we are responding to those things that determine we're happy or unhappy.  It is what our state of mind is like that determines our happiness or unhappiness.

Life is all about choices

Ultimately, Life is all about choices. One's destiny unfolds according to the choices one makes, And sometimes you feel certain that the choices you had made were the right one. You knew your life will never be the same and that something marvelous, may be miraculous, was about to happen to you. It will be amazing awakening.