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What makes a relationship work?

This is a pair of lock and key!







Can they fit in each other and make them useful in this position?
Obviously No!
Now, what if the key changes its position 180 degrees, but the lock is stubborn and doesn’t want to alter its opening position? Will it fit?








No! It still won’t fit. Not useful yet!
How about this?
If the lock to alters its opening position a bit?








Yes! It works now! They are useful now.
A lesson learned, to be compatible and fit for each other, you need to change a bit!
In the above case, Lock and Key are two people and usefulness is a relationship. Two people(Lock and Key) can’t get into a relationship(Usefulness) until they understand(analyze) each other and change themselves(positions) a bit.
Nobody is perfect.
To let other people fit in your life, you need to make a little change in yourself.
No! It’s not compromising! It’s changing yourself to get compatible for the other person. Stubbornness hampers the relationship. Understanding is the invisible thread which keeps two people together.
Keep scope to change yourself and relationships will work wonder. The change for betterment.
Zara aap badlo Zara hum badle! (You change a bit, I will change a bit.)

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